How to quit porn, and how iboga can help

How it works, in motion

Four stages, one meter of how good everyday life feels: the rush of a click, the flatline that follows, the reset the iboga night may open, and what matters after. Press play, or tap a stage.

How it works

From the next click to the root of the need

Motion explainer

1. One click gives a bigger rush than anything else in the day.

   There is always something newer, one scroll away.

2. Real life and real closeness start to feel flat, so you need more.

   More time, more novelty, and it gets harder to stop.

3. After the iboga night, ordinary closeness can feel good again.

   An opening, not a cure. The work continues after.

4. Then you fill the gap the scrolling was covering.

   Often loneliness or stress. Around the fire, you look at it and choose real connection.

What iboga does for the body

What we have seen since 2012. We have welcomed more than 7,677 guests since 2012. Many came for compulsive behaviors, porn among them, and described the same shift after the ceremony: the urge loses its grip, and they can finally see what it was covering. Porn cues light up the same reward circuits as drug cues, and those circuits are where iboga's effect on cravings has been studied most.

This is our experience, not a clinical trial. There is no clinical research yet on iboga or ibogaine for compulsive sexual behavior or porn, so we pair the ceremony with therapy and three months of follow-up.

• What exists, for drugs. A 2016 meta-analysis of 27 animal studies, published in Translational Psychiatry, found that ibogaine reduced drug self-administration, mostly in the first 24 hours. Human trials are lacking. Porn cues act on reward circuits that drug cues also activate, but no one has tested whether the effect carries over to a behavior.
• The parallel with drugs. Because porn and drugs act on the same reward circuits, we see the drug research as the closest guide we have. We offer iboga as a supervised opening alongside therapy, never in place of it.
• The mechanism. Ibogaine and its long-lived metabolite noribogaine act on the serotonin transporter, on opioid and NMDA receptors, and in animal research on growth factors such as GDNF. Read How iboga works.

What guests with behavioral dependences describe is less a chemical reset than a distance from the urge, with a clearer view of what it was doing for them. It is an opening, not a cure. The phone will still be there when you get home, so the blockers, the therapist, the plan all need to be in place.

What the ritual does for the soul

The Bwiti tradition of Gabon does not begin with the habit. It begins with the person. A dependence, in this reading, means that some part of the self has gone without care for a long time, and the habit has settled into the space it left.

Porn has its own face in this light. It often sits where closeness should be: a way to soothe loneliness, stress or boredom without having to be seen. On the paid platforms it can become a longing to be known, bought one message at a time. In the night, guests describe seeing the pattern from outside: what the screen was standing in for, the old wound under the habit, the shame that kept it secret.

The ritual gives that seeing a frame. The nganga, initiated in the Missoko lineage, opens the space and keeps it protected. At the fire talk you say your intention aloud, in front of the fire and the others. The medicine is given in steps, and each person is watched. Through the night the ngombi harp and the mongongo mouth bow guide the traveler, and the practitioner's clearings and protections help release what has been carried too long. At dawn the ceremony is closed. In the life review the next day, what came up is put into words and given its place, along with the way you want to live with desire at home. Belief is not required. Telling the truth helps.

The program, step by step

Porn does not need a medical detox, so most guests join one of our standard psycho-spiritual programs; the psychologist helps you decide which fits. See programs and cost. If alcohol or other substances are part of the picture, the physician may recommend the detox program instead.

• Discovery call and screening. The honest picture: what you watch, how often, what you spend on paid platforms, your mood, medications, alcohol. ECG and full bloodwork.
• Preparation before travel. Blockers installed, subscriptions canceled, saved cards removed, any medication changes planned with your doctor.
• Arrival. Rest, food, vitals, the first fire talk without medicine.
• Ceremonies. At night, with the practitioner pacing the doses and the heart on telemetry.
• Processing and integration. The life review, time with the psychologist, a plan for the late nights, the phone, the lonely moments.
• Three months after. Four integration calls through the months when urges return. A slip is information, not failure; call.

ScreeningECG, bloodwork, medications

before travel

Barriers in placeBlockers, subscriptions canceled, cards removed

before the first dose

CeremoniesTelemetry, IV access, the medical team in the palapa

the nights

Processing and integrationLife review, the psychologist, a plan for the late nights

days between

Three months afterThrough the months when urges return

at home

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Porn and iboga: safety

With no substance to stop, the risks with porn are about your heart, your medicines, whatever else comes with it.

• The heart. Iboga affects the heart's rhythm, so every guest is screened first and monitored through every ceremony: how we protect your heart.
• Medications. Tell us about every medicine, including any antidepressant or naltrexone you have been prescribed. Ibogaine is cleared by the liver enzyme CYP2D6, and drugs such as paroxetine, fluoxetine and bupropion block it; in one study paroxetine roughly doubled exposure to the active drug. Never stop a medication on your own. The physician plans any change with your prescribing doctor.
• Mood and shame. Shame, depression or anxiety can travel with this. Tell us about your mood, including any thoughts of ending your life, now or in the past, so the psychologist can prepare your stay with you.
• Alcohol and other drugs. Heavy drinking, benzodiazepines or stimulants change the plan. Alcohol and benzodiazepines need a medical taper or stabilization, and iboga is never given during benzodiazepine withdrawal. In a review of 19 deaths after ibogaine, most were linked to pre-existing heart disease or other drugs, and seizures from alcohol or benzodiazepine withdrawal were named as a risk.

Read Safety and medical protocol and Can iboga kill you?

Who it is for

People who have tried many times to stop without success, whose porn use or spending now comes before sleep, work or relationships, and who want to understand what the habit does for them, not only block it. Creators who want to step away are welcome too. It is not for anyone with a heart condition or an abnormal ECG that cannot be cleared, anyone in benzodiazepine withdrawal, anyone in an acute suicidal crisis, which needs care at home first, or anyone sent against their will. The discovery call is where this is decided, kindly and without judgment.

Why porn is so hard to stop

Since 2022 the World Health Organization's ICD-11 has listed compulsive sexual behavior disorder: a lasting failure to control intense sexual urges, with marked distress or harm. It is more common than most people think, and rarely treated: in a survey across 42 countries, only 4 to 10 percent of the people at risk of problematic porn use had sought treatment. The other numbers are in the questions below.

Brain imaging studies have found that in people with compulsive sexual behaviour, porn cues light up the same reward circuits that drug cues activate in people with drug addiction. The research is still debated, but it helps explain why the pull can feel so strong, and why willpower alone often is not enough. Feeling addicted is also strongly linked to shame and moral disapproval, so the first step is an honest look: how much, what it costs you, how much of the pain is shame.

OnlyFans and paid creator platforms

On OnlyFans, and on competitors such as Fansly or Fanvue, porn is something you pay for in small, repeated amounts. A monthly subscription opens a creator's page. Pay-per-view messages unlock photos or videos sent straight to your inbox. Tips reward a post or a reply. Paid direct messages buy a conversation. Creators keep 80 percent of what fans pay on OnlyFans; Fansly or Fanvue take a similar cut of about 20 percent.

The sums are large. In the year to November 30, 2024, according to accounts filed by OnlyFans' parent company, Fenix International, as reported by Euronews, fans paid $7.22 billion, up 9 percent. The platform had 4.63 million creator accounts and 377.5 million fan accounts, up 24 percent. Net revenue was about $1.41 billion, with a pre-tax profit of $684 million.

What sets it apart from free porn is the feeling of a relationship: a message that uses your name, a reply late at night, a photo locked behind a price. Lawsuits filed in the United States, including a federal class action filed in California in July 2024 and a suit in Illinois, allege that some management agencies hire "chatters" who pose as creators in direct messages. OnlyFans says it is not affiliated with those agencies, and one claim has been dismissed. These are allegations, not findings. They are still a reason to remember that the person typing may not be the person in the photos.

The law is changing too. In June 2025 the US Supreme Court upheld a Texas age verification law for porn sites by 6 votes to 3, in Free Speech Coalition v. Paxton. About two dozen states now have such laws. In the UK, the Online Safety Act requires "highly effective" age checks for porn services: from January 2025 for publishers, from July 2025 for platforms.

How to quit OnlyFans

Treat it as money first. Cancel every subscription, then turn off auto-renew on each one, whether on OnlyFans, Fansly, Fanvue or anywhere else. Remove your saved cards from every account. Ask your bank or card issuer to block payments to the merchant. Add the platform's sites, along with its competitors, to your blocking software, then delete the apps. Tell one person you trust what you are doing. Finally, treat messages from creators as part of the hook, however personal they feel: they are part of how the platform earns.

If you create adult content

This section is for people on the other side of the screen. Creating adult content is legal work, and many people do it by choice. Nothing here is a judgment of it. It is only for those who want to stop or slow down, and would like a plan for doing it.

Research on creators is scarce and mostly qualitative. A 2025 scoping review from the University of Brescia covered 17 studies; many of the participants call themselves sex workers. In interviews with 43 OnlyFans creators, published at USENIX Security in 2024, people described harassment, obsessive fans, stalking. Stigma made each of these worse, as did being visible. One creator put it this way: "I feel physically safe but not politically safe."

Other themes come up again and again: burnout, messaging that never switches off, the pressure of fans who feel they know you, income that will not stay steady. Income on these platforms is heavily concentrated, and most accounts earn little. If you are tired, you are not alone, and wanting out is not a failure.

How to quit OnlyFans as a creator

Start with your records. Download your archive along with your earnings records before you close anything. Turn off subscription renewals, then tell your subscribers you are leaving if you wish to. Delete the account in your settings, after checking OnlyFans' current terms for what happens to content fans have already bought. Keep your tax records. In the United States your earnings are self-employment income, reported on Schedule C with self-employment tax; in Canada, they are self-employment income reported to the CRA. IRS.gov or canada.ca explain the rules.

Content that has been shared cannot be fully erased, but you can reduce what is out there. Delete it from your account first. Where leaks appear, send DMCA copyright notices to the sites hosting them, then use Google's copyright removal form. Google's search removal tools only take a result out of search; the file stays on the host. Google's consent-based removal route excludes content that was sold. StopNCII.org, run by SWGfL, makes a digital fingerprint of an image on your own device, so partner platforms such as Meta, TikTok, Reddit, Snap or OnlyFans can block matching uploads. It works only on partner sites. It was built for non-consensual images, so it may not apply to content you once sold. In the United States, the TAKE IT DOWN Act, signed on May 19, 2025, gives platforms until May 19, 2026 to remove reported non-consensual intimate images within 48 hours. Whether it covers content that was sold is not clear.

You do not have to do this alone. Pineapple Support (pineapplesupport.org) offers free and subsidized therapy for people working in the online adult industry. It is kink-aware, LGBTQIA+ affirming, with 24/7 emotional support plus groups. SWOP USA runs a rights-focused support line at 877-776-2004. In Canada, there is Maggie's Toronto (maggiesto.org), plus Butterfly (butterflysw.org) for Asian and migrant workers. In a crisis, call or text 988 in the United States or Canada. If anyone is pressuring or forcing you, the National Human Trafficking Hotline is 1-888-373-7888.

What stopping feels like

There is no established withdrawal syndrome from porn, and no proven timeline for a "reset." The only controlled study of seven days without porn (Fernandez and colleagues, 2023) found no withdrawal effects. What people do report is ordinary, though it can still be hard: urges, boredom, changes in sleep.

If shame or low mood ever turns into thoughts of ending your life, call or text 988 in the United States or Canada, or go to an emergency room.

What works without iboga

Most of what helps is therapy plus practical friction. Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) has the best-known trial, cognitive behavioral therapy is the standard first-line approach in clinics, and there is no approved medication; the details are in the questions below.

• Find a therapist. Look for ACT or CBT, with someone who will not shame you. Be honest about what you watch, how often, what it costs you.
• Add friction. Blockers such as Covenant Eyes or Qustodio, plus card or merchant blocks from your bank, put distance between the urge and the screen. They are practical tools; no study has measured their effect on outcomes.
• Find a group. Sexaholics Anonymous (sa.org; 866-424-8777 in the US or Canada), Sex Addicts Anonymous (saa-recovery.org) or SMART Recovery all hold meetings. Groups are support, not a proven treatment.
• Tell one person. A partner, a friend or a doctor who knows makes the habit less secret. Secrets are heavier to carry alone.

There is no government helpline for porn. The SAMHSA National Helpline (1-800-662-4357) is free, open 24/7, and can refer you to local treatment, though it is not specific to porn. In Canada, call 211.

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